100 Life efforts
Today, Olina and myself went to see our common friends Joan and Pauline at Richardson. Pauline gave me a list of 100 life-time efforts for being a nice person. The list is in Chinese. By translating them, I am also learning them carefully.
1. To know your own weakness and to have the will to change it.
2. To cultivate your own role models and to work toward being one of them.
3. To possess the strength and wisdom to control your own desires.
4. To nurture your ability to control and direct your emotions.
5. To live without being pressured by your environment.
6. To be active and thoughtful.
7. To know your own limits.
8. To help others.
9. To be happy with whatever you have already.
10. To know your own mistakes.
11. To forgive others.
12. To appreciate others.
13. To give others enough space.
14. To know the wisdom of the crowd.
15. To be soft and kind.
16. To be rich is to be able to give.
17. To seek the truth and to seek no reward.
18. To eliminate selfishness and work for the common interests.
19. To be poor can be a life-time experience.
20. To leave your property to others.
21. To travell by yourself alone once a while.
22. To know your emotional weakness and not to sell yourself for money.
23. To know the language of subtlty.
24. To be consistent and hard-working.
25. To be confident and to have your own objectives and expectaions.
26. To seek and to remember good advices.
27. To plan your time well.
28. To be reasonable is to be equal to each other.
29. To remember your own mistakes and not to repeat your own mistakes.
30. To be professional in whatever you do.
31. To be kind and truthful.
32. To look forward not backward.
33. To get up early and to work hard.
34. To be industrial and frugal.
35. To be your self.
36. To learn and unlearn.
37. To be neutral.
38. To know when to return.
39. To be flexible.
40. To believe truth.
41. To worry nothing.
42. To be happy.
43. To be professional.
44. To be a generalist.
45. To know the world.
46. To read often.
47. To know when to rest.
48. To have regular life.
49. To exercise regularly.
50. To live a simple life.
51. To have your own quielt time.
52. To think deeply once a while.
53. To nurture your kindness.
54. To help others without seeking rewards.
55. To share with friends.
56. To be self-reflective.
57. To give the best wishes to the unfortunate.
58. To observe very carefully.
59. To respect life.
60. To be frugal.
61. To be self-contained during happy or angry times.
62. To be neutral to yourself and others.
63. To second-guess no one.
64. To be kind.
65. To practice what you preach.
66. To be self-reliance.
67. To change yourself without expecting changes from others.
68. To have good life habits.
69. To be kind is more important than to be inteligent.
70. To expect better future.
71. To create opportunities and not to wait for it.
72. To control your own emotion.
73. To be happy with what you have.
74. To let life continue.
75. To study others carefully.
76. To welcome criticism.
77. To practice your promises.
78. To be kind.
79. To give happiness to others.
80. To attack no one.
81. To sell no one for your own gains.
82. To share your windfall.
83. To take blames.
84. To compare with no one.
85. To be warm and kind.
86. To be peaceful.
87. To respect others.
88. To mitigate problems with good manners.
89. To have good friends.
90. To resolve your own problems by yourself.
91. To work happily.
92. To be thankful.
93. To know the Tao.
94. To know relativity.
95. To be harmonious.
96. To learn from others.
97. To be a kind teacher and a loyal student.
98. To help other is to help yourself.
99. To give responsibilities to the young people.
100. To be kind to your parents.
Translated on April 20, 2006.
1. To know your own weakness and to have the will to change it.
2. To cultivate your own role models and to work toward being one of them.
3. To possess the strength and wisdom to control your own desires.
4. To nurture your ability to control and direct your emotions.
5. To live without being pressured by your environment.
6. To be active and thoughtful.
7. To know your own limits.
8. To help others.
9. To be happy with whatever you have already.
10. To know your own mistakes.
11. To forgive others.
12. To appreciate others.
13. To give others enough space.
14. To know the wisdom of the crowd.
15. To be soft and kind.
16. To be rich is to be able to give.
17. To seek the truth and to seek no reward.
18. To eliminate selfishness and work for the common interests.
19. To be poor can be a life-time experience.
20. To leave your property to others.
21. To travell by yourself alone once a while.
22. To know your emotional weakness and not to sell yourself for money.
23. To know the language of subtlty.
24. To be consistent and hard-working.
25. To be confident and to have your own objectives and expectaions.
26. To seek and to remember good advices.
27. To plan your time well.
28. To be reasonable is to be equal to each other.
29. To remember your own mistakes and not to repeat your own mistakes.
30. To be professional in whatever you do.
31. To be kind and truthful.
32. To look forward not backward.
33. To get up early and to work hard.
34. To be industrial and frugal.
35. To be your self.
36. To learn and unlearn.
37. To be neutral.
38. To know when to return.
39. To be flexible.
40. To believe truth.
41. To worry nothing.
42. To be happy.
43. To be professional.
44. To be a generalist.
45. To know the world.
46. To read often.
47. To know when to rest.
48. To have regular life.
49. To exercise regularly.
50. To live a simple life.
51. To have your own quielt time.
52. To think deeply once a while.
53. To nurture your kindness.
54. To help others without seeking rewards.
55. To share with friends.
56. To be self-reflective.
57. To give the best wishes to the unfortunate.
58. To observe very carefully.
59. To respect life.
60. To be frugal.
61. To be self-contained during happy or angry times.
62. To be neutral to yourself and others.
63. To second-guess no one.
64. To be kind.
65. To practice what you preach.
66. To be self-reliance.
67. To change yourself without expecting changes from others.
68. To have good life habits.
69. To be kind is more important than to be inteligent.
70. To expect better future.
71. To create opportunities and not to wait for it.
72. To control your own emotion.
73. To be happy with what you have.
74. To let life continue.
75. To study others carefully.
76. To welcome criticism.
77. To practice your promises.
78. To be kind.
79. To give happiness to others.
80. To attack no one.
81. To sell no one for your own gains.
82. To share your windfall.
83. To take blames.
84. To compare with no one.
85. To be warm and kind.
86. To be peaceful.
87. To respect others.
88. To mitigate problems with good manners.
89. To have good friends.
90. To resolve your own problems by yourself.
91. To work happily.
92. To be thankful.
93. To know the Tao.
94. To know relativity.
95. To be harmonious.
96. To learn from others.
97. To be a kind teacher and a loyal student.
98. To help other is to help yourself.
99. To give responsibilities to the young people.
100. To be kind to your parents.
Translated on April 20, 2006.